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		<title>By: Tyler Clarke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tyler Clarke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 05:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my best friend has been in an Anger Management class for 2 months now, he improved a lot when dealing with anger.-~:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my best friend has been in an Anger Management class for 2 months now, he improved a lot when dealing with anger.-~:
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		<title>By: Leigh Shulman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leigh Shulman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So what was the verdict? Long or short?

Noah and I are known as the drinkers in the family because we always bring something  to family dinners. Grandma and grandpa&#039;s 60th anniversary, our room was where everyone stored their liquor so they didn&#039;t have to wake the kids to refill their cups (This was pre-Lila). We still occasionally have a blender shoved at us when we walk in the door. 

So much for my don&#039;t drink guideline! I guess it&#039;s all a balance, though. As with everything else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So what was the verdict? Long or short?</p>
<p>Noah and I are known as the drinkers in the family because we always bring something  to family dinners. Grandma and grandpa&#8217;s 60th anniversary, our room was where everyone stored their liquor so they didn&#8217;t have to wake the kids to refill their cups (This was pre-Lila). We still occasionally have a blender shoved at us when we walk in the door. </p>
<p>So much for my don&#8217;t drink guideline! I guess it&#8217;s all a balance, though. As with everything else.
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		<title>By: Leigh Shulman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leigh Shulman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a couple friends who do the same thing. You also find cheaper flights and don&#039;t have to navigate the airports. Which I&#039;m sure also goes a long way in stress reduction.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a couple friends who do the same thing. You also find cheaper flights and don&#8217;t have to navigate the airports. Which I&#8217;m sure also goes a long way in stress reduction.
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		<title>By: Leigh Shulman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leigh Shulman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:31:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hehe. Is that a plan or a concern? 

But yes, politics. I come from a family who likes to debate politics of any kind in loud booming voices while pacing back and forth and gesticulating wildly. If not accustomed to it, you&#039;d be worried a physical fight would break out. But it&#039;s just their way.

Me? I stopped the women&#039;s rights, Israeli politics, environment, how-religious-should-you-be and what&#039;s-the-best-way-to-raise-a-child discussions a while ago. Now I just sit quietly with the popcorn.</description>
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<p>But yes, politics. I come from a family who likes to debate politics of any kind in loud booming voices while pacing back and forth and gesticulating wildly. If not accustomed to it, you&#8217;d be worried a physical fight would break out. But it&#8217;s just their way.</p>
<p>Me? I stopped the women&#8217;s rights, Israeli politics, environment, how-religious-should-you-be and what&#8217;s-the-best-way-to-raise-a-child discussions a while ago. Now I just sit quietly with the popcorn.
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		<title>By: Leigh Shulman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leigh Shulman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:27:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s really a blessing to feel that way about family. I feel lucky in the same way. Of course, we have our moments, but overall, I can&#039;t complain (too much).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s really a blessing to feel that way about family. I feel lucky in the same way. Of course, we have our moments, but overall, I can&#8217;t complain (too much).
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		<title>By: Turner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Turner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 03:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just know I&#039;ll get politics involved this year...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just know I&#8217;ll get politics involved this year&#8230;
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		<title>By: Candice Walsh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Candice Walsh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 00:10:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Currently drinking a beer and shouting back and my forth to my mother about whether or not my coat is actually a long coat or a short coat. Thank you for this.</description>
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		<title>By: Tim Patterson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Patterson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 21:03:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good tips here --- I count my blessings to come home to a family without much tension and with a whole lot of love and support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good tips here &#8212; I count my blessings to come home to a family without much tension and with a whole lot of love and support.
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		<title>By: Abbie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 20:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great suggestions, Leigh!  I live on the west coast and my family lives on the east coast, so my solution is to go back during the &quot;off-season&quot; (October or Feb/March) and the visit is much less stressful!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great suggestions, Leigh!  I live on the west coast and my family lives on the east coast, so my solution is to go back during the &#8220;off-season&#8221; (October or Feb/March) and the visit is much less stressful!!!
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